A banker has been arrested by operatives of the Lagos State Police
Command for allegedly slitting her husband’s manhood. She was said to
have taken that action over his alleged refusal to give her money.
The incident occurred about 2am last Monday at their 99, Falolu Street, Surulere, Lagos home.
The victim, Olamilekan Idowu Daniji, 34, told The Nation yesterday
that his wife of three years, Nofisat, woke him up from sleep on the
fateful day, threatening that between them, one person must die.
“At first, I thought armed robbers broke into our home because she
hit me hard, waking me forcefully. She tore my under-pant and held my
private part. Everything was like a movie. And before I could say
anything, she cut my private part. When I saw blood I shouted and she
said: ‘That is where you will die.’ She abandoned me and fled,” Daniji
said.
He recalled that two days earlier, his wife, who works in a bank,
quarrelled with him over his inability to provide food allowance.
He said: “I am a gospel artiste. On Saturday morning – December 14 – I
was preparing to go out when my wife came and said she needed money for
food. I told her I had nothing on me. But before I left, she told me
there were some noodles in the house which she and my son would eat.
After she finished preparing it, she left a little in the pot which I
ate before going out. But before I left the house, I called one of my
sales representatives who told me he sold some copies and had about
N2,500 for me.
“After collecting the money, I went home and my wife said she wanted
to eat fufu and white soup. I bought it for her. Shortly after, she
requested bread, which I also bought for her. I did not complain because
she is pregnant. On Sunday, I went to church, came back home and saw my
wife and my son eating rice. I was happy that at least they had
something to eat. I went out and bought beans and bread for myself and
as I was eating, my wife came and started abusing me. She said I was
selfish; that I did not care to ask how she got money to prepare the
rice they ate. When she realised I was not responding, she carried the
plate of beans and turned it on my head. She held my tie and threatened
to strangle me. I begged her but she would not listen. So, I forced
myself off her and ran away. But she caught up with me and broke a
bucket on my head.”
Daniji added: “She broke three empty bottles and attempted to stab
me, but I escaped through my sister’s shop. Her mother came around and I
called my mother’s sister and they were able to calm her. After we
settled, I left the house.”
The artiste said when he returned in the evening, he could not find
his son. He asked his wife but she said nothing, but his elder sister
told him that his mother-in-law took his son away.
“I told my wife to go and bring my son and that if I did not see him
before 8pm, she would not like what I would do to her. At exactly 8pm,
she left the house and came back after 30 minutes without my son. We
quarrelled, after which I slept off on the chair. That was where she
woke me up and cut my private part.”
Daniji said he was rushed to a private infirmary in Surulere by members of his family.
The matter, he added, was reported at the Barracks Police Station, Surulere, and the woman was arrested.
In her statement at the station, Nofisat wrote: “Ever since we got
married, my sister-in-law and her twin brother have not allowed us
peace. I was praying that my husband would make money and rent his own
apartment so that we can live together in peace without any
interference. I did not use knife on him; it was my finger nails.”
Daniji said he disallowed the police from charging the matter to court, because all he wanted was separation from his wife.